When we talk about love, lets ask the designer of love and here is what he says: Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;  does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;  does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;  bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. You realise if you are honest, I cannot do that out of myself. Good, because this kind of love comes from God and not out of ourselves.